From My Mailbox : How To Handle Criticism

Hello Saif!

Pleased to know about your dedication in helping people.

So i would like to share one of my problems with you which I believe you’ll be glad to solve.

Although I have confidence on myself but people’s criticism about me make me doubtful about my abilities. So I’ll be very thankful if u can suggest an antidote against this problem of mine.

Regards

Shivani

Reply from : SaifulRizal@AskSaiful.com

Hi Shivani!

Wow long time since I last heard from you..

Anyways, that’s a very common problem.

I’d like you to consider something.

Do you REALLY have self-confidence if other people bring you down?

If you think about it hard enough, no.

That’s not really self-confidence.

To me, self-confidence is being confident in your ability to manifest
something into your life no matter how difficult the odds get.

So I propose we go by a two-pronged approach here :

1) Increase your “self-confidence”

How do you have more faith in yourself?

I’d like to share with you something that has helped me thoroughly.

“I can be what I will to be. Try to come into a thorough understanding of
the true nature of the “I”; if you do, you will become invincible.”

- Charles F. Haanel, The Master Key System

You’ll automatically have more faith in yourself when you realize that the
“I” you’re talking about is also an extension of Universal/Source energy.

That the true “I” is able to manifest anything because it’s an extension
of the Universe’s / God’s power.

You are an extension of that power which created the world.

Once you truly understand that, you’ll have faith in yourself no matter what.

Tell me if this helps you.

2) Remove yourself from the environment

The second thing you must do is to remove yourself from the critics,
interact less with them and…

START INTERACTING WITH SUPPORTIVE PEOPLE.

Get a friend who supports you in everything you do, Shivani.

Get a group of friends and start a MasterMind Group as mentioned by
Napoleon Hill in Think & Grow Rich. (By the way, join my mastermind group
at http://mythinkandgrowrich.ning.com )

Get a coach to help you remain focused on the prize and support you to
reach your goals faster.

That’s what I’d advise you to do.

To CANI,

SaiF

P.S. My friend, if you’re frustrated of throwing your potential away
because of procrastination, inconsistency, lack of focus or any of that
CRAP isn’t it about time you changed that?

Are you ready to see what you can REALLY do, who you’re REALLY meant to
become and the WONDERS you can attract into your iife?

If you are, then I’m ready to be YOUR coach! Ask me for a free 30-min
session NOW if you want! =)

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