Do Communication Skills Play A Role In Attracting Miracles?

Hi my friend!

The short answer to that question is “of course”!

Watch the video below to find out what I mean.

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I believe that communication skills are the most important skills you need to attract miracles in your life.

However, what I didn’t mention in the video is this :

Communication skills only amplify your vibration, they do not create it.

Let me explain.

As you already know, you can only attract things, people and events into your life that you are in vibrational resonance with.

Your vibration (feelings) will be transmitted to others as you interact with them.

After reading “Blink” by Malcolm Gladwell, the thing I’ve realized is that we all subconsciously register other people’s vibrations within seconds.

So, even before you speak, people can already sense your intention.

Here’s what I love to do before, during and after speaking to someone.

I use one of my secret weapons, Ho’oponopono!

Instead of saying all 4 phrases, I just keep saying “I love you” in my head over and over and over again and it increases my vibration dramatically =)

Anyways, here’s something interesting from Gladwell’s Blink :

One of the studies cited in the book involves the ability to look at couples talking about mundane events (like discussing the decision to get a dog - how more mundane can it get?!) and determining with over 90% accuracy whether they will be together for the rest of their lives.

And here’s the weird part :

The expert could tell this within watching a “thin-sliced” 3 minute-video of the couple talking!

This really piqued my curiosity, so I read on.

And I found out that the expert could tell because he has looked at hundreds of such videos and painstakingly analyzed every second of it.

He has been doing this for so long that his subconscious mind could now easily pick it up with precision within just a few minutes.

And after a while he found out what he was looking for in these conversations that signals a relationship that won’t last.

Do you want to know what it is?

Maybe it could help your relationships.

I know it certainly did mine.

One word.

Contempt.

Contempt is an intense feeling or attitude of regarding someone or something as inferior, base, or worthless—it is similar to scorn.

If one of the partners were to be contemptuous to the other, even if he or she was joking, the relationship is almost certainly to come to one end - separation.

That, my friend, is why one of my mentors, Joel Bauer says, “Your Ego isn’t your Amigo.”

Anyways, even before I knew about this, I have always been lifting people’s spirits up and empowering them to leading greater lives =)

How about you, my friend?

Are you being contemptuous to your partner or friends?

If you are, it’s time to do something about it!

Start saying “I love you” in your head to the next person you talk to… and be amazed at what happens!

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8 Comment(s)

  1. Nice one Saif, you shoot well on video!

    I like your point about talking from the other persons perspective. I’ve recently been to a seminar where I just totally didn’t get what the person was telling me. Communication is key!

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    Alex Shalman | Jul 30, 2008 | Reply

  2. Hi Saif,
    like alweis you are so right about comunication. I believe it is not what you say but how you say it. But again, how do you alweys know what is the other persons point of view? That is such a complex topic. Anyway thank’s for you tips on comunication.
    By the way you realy did look great in the video

    Therese | Jul 31, 2008 | Reply

  3. Hi Saif,

    Great video on communication.

    You’ve delivered and I’m proud of you. :)

    Speaking of communication, I’ve actually tested the human senses on my latest blog post: Sexed-Up Chocolate…Mmm

    Check it out! ;)

    Kind rgds,
    Diana Sabrain
    http://dianasabrain.com
    SexyFemaleMarketing

    Diana Sabrain | Jul 31, 2008 | Reply

  4. A very helpful post. You explained it well. I also believe that communication skills is very important in any aspect of our lives. It also helps in developing our relationships with people. Your video is great.

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    Paula | Aug 1, 2008 | Reply

  5. @Alex Shalman:

    Thank you very much! It’s experience bro!

    YOU CAN DO IT TOO! =)

    Oh man! That has got to be torture… and the frustration!

    Communication is key!

    INDEED! ;)

    SaiF | Aug 7, 2008 | Reply

  6. @Therese:

    Thank you so much for the compliment =)

    I like you ;)

    Haha!

    Communication skills is indeed very important in our daily lives.

    As for what they want, it’s very simple Therese.

    TWO WORDS.

    ASK THEM!

    Ask them about their dreams, desires, problems and biggest fantasies.

    Trust me, people will talk to you for hours!

    That’s “The Secret”! ;)

    SaiF | Aug 7, 2008 | Reply

  7. @Diana Sabrain:

    Thank you Diana!

    I’ve checked it out and left a comment for you! =)

    Thank you for all your support Diana!

    I LOVE YOU!

    SaiF | Aug 7, 2008 | Reply

  8. @Paula:

    Hi Paula!

    Thank you for visiting my blog! =)

    Developing our relationships with people..

    THAT’S WHAT LIFE IS ABOUT ISN’T IT? ;)

    Thank you for the compliments, Paula!

    I LOVE YOU! =)

    SaiF | Aug 7, 2008 | Reply

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